Aina Zulaikha: Stop The Hate And Start The Love...

Assalamualaikum,

You can tell what shirt not to wear but no one, nobody can tell me who to date... -Chad (SWAC)-

So, if you're a rusher and you have a twitter, you'd probably know what happened on 21-22 January. Big Time Rush performed at Selena Gomez's UNICEF concert and James brought his cute puppy, Fox on stage. Right after that, everyone just start talking about Fox (James' dog),

Sydney (Carlos' dog)

and Sissy (Kendall's dog)

They even became the Worldwide Trending Topics. Here's a proof.

Then, people start talking about Kendall's hair. They think he cut and dyed his hair. People started unfollowing him on twitter. *Poor Kendall* :(

Well, I don't really think he changed his hairstyle.

This group of rushers (who shouldn't be called a rusher) really don't care about Kendall's feeling. Justin Bieber and Greyson Chance changed their hairstyle and yet people still love them. Everyone cut their hair, is it a crime to change your hairstyle? I don't think so. I don't really see any relevant reason to hate him. He knew about it, ok. I bet he must be a bit sad when his fans are hating him..

See... He said it.

Later on that day, Carlos uploaded his usual Friday video, Fan Email, well it was a bit late because of the concert with Selena (I waited all day long for him to upload the video). In that video, Samantha Droke and her best friend were there with him. Earlier on that day, I saw quite a few people tweeting to Carlos asking if his dating Samantha Droke. So, just for the curiosity, I googled about that and found some picture of them. I said to myself 'Ok, if he is dating her for real, I would be so happy cuz she suits him. They're cute together.' I went to a wedding in KL when he uploaded the video and I can't watch youtube videos on my blackberry. When we were on the way back, I watched it on my brothers's iPad (I forgot that he brought his iPad all along -.-) and he was being a real gentlemen for giving his fans a big surprise.

Towards the end of the video he said he got this question a lot lately, and the question is 'Am I dating this girl *point to Samantha* right here, Samantha Droke.' Then he said, I think it's the time to tell the truth, and the answer is Yes! I am dating Samantha Droke. I almost fainted when he said that. Not because I hate it but because I love it. He took the risk of losing fans and getting hate just to tell the world, who's the lucky girl that owns his heart. How sweet is that? This video have almost 1900 comments within a few days. People just keep on saying he shouldn't date Samantha, people start hating and unfollowing him, and some stupid rushers just start dissing on Samantha. But you know what? Here's my thought about this. Samantha is so lucky to get my Carlitos and they look good together. They make a cute couple. People should stop hating both of them. You're not gonna get him, as in like he's just gonna walk into your room and ask you out. No. He don't even know you're real name. He just know you ask a rusher. He's a normal human being. He need a love life too. Plus, it's his life not yours. He's not our puppet, he's our idol. So stop. It's fine if you hate her but don't hate Carlos because of her and don't bash her. He lost 3000 followers just because of this lousy thing. He must be really sad when you guys are hating his girlfriend. You people are just ridiculous.

We love Carlos' sweet smile. We want that smile on his face all the time. So stop pressuring him with things like this. He have a tour coming up and they gonna start shooting Big Time Rush season 3 soon. So just deal with the fact that he's dating Sammy, Ok..